Parenting & Social Issues

  Har mata-pita chahte hain ki unka bachha zindagi me aage badhe, naye logo se bina darr ke baat kare aur har mushkil ka samna  Dradhta(दृढ़ता)   se kare. Is sabke liye ek cheez sabse zaroori hai— Aatmvishwas (Self-Confidence) . ​Grade 3 se Grade 5 (8 se 11 saal) ki umar me bachhe khud ko doosron ki nazron se dekhna shuru karte hain. Wo class me khud ki tulna doosre bachhon se karte hain, jaise— "Wo mujhse acchi drawing karta hai" ya "Main sports me kamzor hoon" . Is samay unka Aatmvishwas ya to bohot majboot ho jata hai ya phir hamesha ke liye toot jata hai. ​Agar aapka bachha naye logo ke samne bolne se katrata hai, galti karne se darta hai, ya achanak shant rehne laga hai, to use aapke sath aur sahi guidence ki zarurat hai. Aaiye jaante hain 5 aasan tarike jinse aap apne bachhe ka self-confidence badha sakte hain. ​1. Unhe Khud Faisle Lene Dein (Independent Choices) ​Jab hum bachhon ke saare kaam aur faisle khud karne lagte hain, to unhe lagta hai ki wo akel...

 Aaj ke daur me smartphone hum sabhi ki zindagi ka ek aham hissa ban chuka hai. Lekin dikkat tab shuru hoti hai jab ye bado ke sath-sath bachhon ki bhi sabse badi aadat—ya yoon kahein ki lat (addiction) ban jata hai. Grade 3 se Grade 5 ke bachhe (8 se 11 saal) is umar me hote hain jahan unka dimaag tezi se naye concepts aur samajik rishte seekh raha hota hai. Is umar me agar bachha ghanton mobile me video games khel raha hai ya reels/shorts dekh raha hai, to iska asar uske dimaag, aankhon aur padhai par bohot bura padta hai. Agar aapka bachha bhi mobile ke bina khana nahi khata, ya mobile lene par gussa aur rona shuru kar deta hai, to ye Mobile Addiction ke lakshan hain. Aaj is article me hum baat karenge ki aakhir is addiction ko bina kisi daant-fatkar ke aasan tarikon se kaise door kiya jaye. Bachhon Me Mobile Addiction Ke Nuksan 8 se 11 saal ke bachhon me zyada screen dekhne se ye gabhir samasyaon ka saamna karna pad sakta hai: Attention Span Kam Hona: Bachhe bohot jaldi thak ja...

  Grade 3 se Grade 5 ke bachhe (8 se 11 saal) ab itne bade ho chuke hote hain ki unse umeed ki jaati hai ki wo bina kisi nakhre ke school jayein. Lekin, kai baar achha-bhala school jane wala bachha achanak school jane se katrane lagta hai, subah pet dard ya sir dard ka bahana banane lagta hai, ya school ka naam sunte hi rone lagta hai. ​Aksar bado ko lagta hai ki bachha sirf padhai se bachne ke liye natak kar raha hai, lekin aisa nahi hai. Is umar me agar bachha school jane se darr raha hai, to iske peeche koi gehra dimaagi ya samajik kaaran ho sakta hai. ​Aaj is article me hum vistar se samjhenge ki is umar ke bachhe school jane se kyun darte hain aur ek parent ya teacher ke roop me aap is samasya ko kaise hal kar sakte hain. ​Bachhon Ke School Na Jane Ke Mukhya Kaaran (Reasons) ​Bade bachhon (Grade 3-5) me school ka darr chote bachhon se alag hota hai. Inke mukhya kaaran niche diye gaye hain: ​1. Peer Pressure ya Bullying (Dosto Dwara Pareshan Karna) ​Is umar me bachhon ke...

  Jab bachha Grade 3, 4 ya 5 me pahunchta hai, to uski school ki duniya tezi se badalne lagti hai. Ab tak jo padhai sirf aasan kavitaon aur choti kahaniyon tak simit thi, wo ab bade chapters, maths ke mushkil sawalon aur science ke concepts me badal jaati hai. ​Is umar (8 se 11 saal) me aksar parents ki ye shikayat hoti hai ki "Bachha padhne nahi baithta" ya "Uska dhyan padhai me nahi lagta" . ​Agar aap bhi is samasya se pareshan hain, to dariye ase to mat. Is umar me bachhon ko dante ya marein nahi, balki unme padhai ki sahi aadat (Habit) dalein. Aaj is article me hum 5 aasan aur asardar tarikon ke bare me baat karenge jo aapke bachhe ko padhai se dosti karne me madad karenge. ​1. Padhai Ka Ek Sahi Samay (Routine) Tay Karein ​Bachhon ke dimaag ko agar pata ho ki is samay ye kaam karna hai, to wo uske liye pehle se tayyar rehte hain. ​ Fix Time: Rozana padhai ka ek waqt tay karein—jaise shaam ko 5 se 6 baje tak. ​ Consistency: Chahe school ka homework ho ...